I Have Added to My Misery

What have I done?

I have added to my misery! Lord, please help this child of Yours! OK?! For so long I have experienced misery. It is time I experience happiness. Taking a long look at the relationships in my life, I realized that some of my relationships suck! Why? Because some of the people in my life suck. Now, it’s not their fault. It’s not my fault. It’s how we were raised, reared, brought up; whichever word goes there.

I can’t believe I surrounded myself with talkers instead of doers. But I can believe it. That was my mindset. I was a talker. Let me define talkers and doers. It’s easy. Read this. Doers actually do what they said they were going to do. Talkers only talk about what they’re going to do. Simple.

This is the part I don’t understand. This is it right here. We are suppose to continue growing in our lives. We should motivate others and ourselves to do better in our lives. Unfortunately, that’s not always the case. I can’t take my talker friends with me on my journey to becoming a better me. Let’s just say misery loves company and I am no longer part of that company. Sad. I know. Oh well! Such is life!

I am a little heartbroken; only a little. One of life’s lessons is that the more you grow into your own, the more people are going to stay where they stand; like a tree stump. Yes, I had to let go of my misery so that I could grow into my happiness. NEVER let anyone ruin your happiness. If you do, you will add onto your misery.



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Gigi Nero

Gigi Nero

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Born in NY. Grew up in SC. Bachelors of Arts in music. Love writing songs. Love writing stories.